Me time! yes...seeing your spouse (boyfriend/girlfriend) everyday could be bored! somehow or sometimes in our life, we need to have our own "pleasure time" to indulge ourself.. I used to do it, hmmm hanya untuk menemukan diri saya kembali dan fokus memikirkan kehidupan saya, bukan kehidupan orang lain :)
I often find that saying "i love you" "what are you doin" "sudah makan belum?" or even "Make Love" becomes routinity/ "old duty!", nothing special! Loose the sparkle of relationship...hmmm ;)
Find your own activity that could recharge your self..such as :
Holiday getaway:
Go to some places.. enjoy your holiday time alone or with some best friends! Get wild, if it's necessary (hahaha it's optional)
Hang out with best friends :
For me, there's no such lovely moment but spending time with my best friends! having coffee, sharing some stories, laughing etc
Get some Books :
Choose one or two books, spending your time by reading your favourite books in your bedroom or coffee shop etc
Hobbies :
wowww... pacaran setiap hari bisa membuat kita melupakan hobby kita! Diantara kalian pasti ada yang setuju...yang biasa Olahraga jadi lupa olahraga.. :) yes that's why you need "Me time", so you can do all the things you want to do! :)
So, what will you do to recharge your self and your relationship guys???
Remember, Life's not about boyfriends or girlfriends, LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!
Hugs n Kisses,
RVQ